Our Therapy Blog
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Children Need To Learn Respect
In our culture, I (Vincent) am noticing a lack of respect, especially in children. This is alarmingly since disrespectful children will become disrespectful teenagers, and then disrespectful young adults. Our American culture is trending toward de-emphasizing this respect for adults or humans in general. We are abandoning our methods of teaching children respect. Other cultures
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Bombarded With Words?
Do you ever wake up and feel like you’re being bombarded with words? This happens to me quite frequently. I wake up, and my wife starts talking. I hear some of them, and some of them I don’t. It takes a while for me to fully awaken. I am usually in
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Why Therapy Doesn’t Work: Understanding Effective Therapy
For therapy to work, the client needs to understand the process of therapy. This article discusses emotional pain, the process of therapy, the responsibility of the client, and the role of the therapist. But before we begin diving into the depths, let me begin by telling you a story. The yellow jacket nest that I
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So Your Spouse Is Having an Affair…A Practical Christian Guide
Updated 1/23/2026 This is the ultimate guide to work through an affair in a Christian way. So if you want to: Then you will love this new guide. Let’s get started. Table of Contents Chapter 1 How to Get Peace through an Affair – Draw Closer to God Chapter 2 How Not to Make Things
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Seven Signs You May Be In A Toxic Friendship
Songs have been written about them, a tv show is named after them, and we all need them: friends. Friends are our cheerleaders, adopted family members and our social network. For some people, however, friendships can be exhausting, angering, and unhealthy. The very definition of friend is called into question when there is
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The Most Misunderstood Couples Skill: Assertiveness
It never fails. My couples come to my office. I (Vincent) talk about assertiveness in marriage. They attest that they understand what it is. They proclaim they exercise it in their relationship. But when we begin to process a conflict, their body betrays them. I had one husband sit forward on
